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Post by Deleted on Feb 28, 2020 6:37:47 GMT
Guy walks into a packed bar, he shouts ‘drinks are on me’, points to the owner and says ‘and have one yourself’ 20 minutes later, he shouts up ‘drinks are on me!’ Once again to the owner ‘and have one yourself’ This goes on all night ‘drinks are on me! And have one yourself’ As the night goes on the owner thinks ok, I need to get this guy to pay, so he asks the guy to pay his bill. The guy refuses. The owner is furious and gets the bouncers to take him outside and give him a right good seeing to.
Next night the guy walks into the same bar and shouts ‘drinks are on me!’ The owner says ‘what about me?’
Guy: ‘Fvck you, you’re a moody bastard when you’ve had a drink’ 😂
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 23, 2020 8:47:54 GMT
We're back to this, are we? It's sad that some men weren't raised right with how to treat a woman. A smart guy would still learn when they get older and experienced the world and other people, unless you're the guy living in your parent's basement.
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Post by cooldog65 on Oct 24, 2020 6:06:19 GMT
We're back to this, are we? It's sad that some men weren't raised right with how to treat a woman. A smart guy would still learn when they get older and experienced the world and other people, unless you're the guy living in your parent's basement. This works both ways. When it comes to respect, it is earned.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 24, 2020 6:14:15 GMT
What respect? I'm talking about taking a woman out on a date. Then men wonder why they're dateless. If I was wrong with my thinking, I'd be dateless, but I'm not.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2020 10:20:15 GMT
What respect? I'm talking about taking a woman out on a date. Then men wonder why they're dateless. If I was wrong with my thinking, I'd be dateless, but I'm not. Not hard to get a roll in the hay without spending loads. NSA sites work just fine and skips the bullshit. But the quality does lack lol...
You say you aren't dateless which is great. But, I have to assume you are dating many Men.
If I meet someone for a first date from a website then I have no issue buying some drinks. Its usually a quick meet with rest of day/night remaining open just incase.. I will not be buying a costly meal for sure. Now, If I know you in person a while like 3 months lets say and we go out on a date. No issue buying a meal because I already know you aren't out for a freebie and a sponger.
When I used to do loads of Overtime at work. When I was out I had no issue putting my hand in my pocket with dates. I did it because I wanted to and not because the expectation that its a requirement.
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Oct 24, 2020 13:47:03 GMT
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 24, 2020 13:47:03 GMT
What respect? I'm talking about taking a woman out on a date. Then men wonder why they're dateless. If I was wrong with my thinking, I'd be dateless, but I'm not. Not hard to get a roll in the hay without spending loads. NSA sites work just fine and skips the bullshit. But the quality does lack lol...
You say you aren't dateless which is great. But, I have to assume you are dating many Men.
If I meet someone for a first date from a website then I have no issue buying some drinks. Its usually a quick meet with rest of day/night remaining open just incase.. I will not be buying a costly meal for sure. Now, If I know you in person a while like 3 months lets say and we go out on a date. No issue buying a meal because I already know you aren't out for a freebie and a sponger.
When I used to do loads of Overtime at work. When I was out I had no issue putting my hand in my pocket with dates. I did it because I wanted to and not because the expectation that its a requirement.
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Oct 24, 2020 14:01:41 GMT
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 24, 2020 14:01:41 GMT
I don't think a guy should spend a lot of money either on a first date. For myself, I consider going out for an expensive meal to be a waste of money. I enjoy pub food, Chinese food, pizza, tacos, etc, so not anything pricey when I do go out to eat.
I don't believe in the guy spending money all the time. If a guy does that because he's uninspired to think of something else besides dinner, then that's on him.
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Post by cooldog65 on Oct 24, 2020 14:15:45 GMT
What respect? I'm talking about taking a woman out on a date. Then men wonder why they're dateless. If I was wrong with my thinking, I'd be dateless, but I'm not. As for dating, I just don't feel very inclined right now. Being dateless in the middle of a pandemic isn't a bad thing.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2020 14:24:41 GMT
^ Same here, I've got a pair of 14.5yo cats to worry about, plus the CV stuff... No desire to complicate my life with dating. I'm perfectly comfortable staying single.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2020 14:55:31 GMT
As I said the other day. I log in daily and don't know why as I like my space to do the stuff I want to. The thing that puts me of a lot is that many are looking for someone to make them happy.
If I could find a woman to trust and not live in each others pockets daily and texting all the time. It would be a good start. Texting all the time drains me. Also, I like being boss of my own place and only my name on the contract.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2020 16:16:29 GMT
If I could find a woman to trust and not live in each others pockets daily and texting all the time. It would be a good start.
The woman I've been involved with since May (the one I posted the pictures of a few months back) runs a highly successful business. She even has a chauffeur. She doesn't drive.
Needless to say, she doesn't want a penny from me and I don't want her money, either. I would never land myself in any other sort of scenario.
Any man who chooses to stick to archaic dating "rules" in a modern world deserves whatever garbage comes along with it.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2020 17:02:44 GMT
If I could find a woman to trust and not live in each others pockets daily and texting all the time. It would be a good start.
The woman I've been involved with since May (the one I posted the pictures of a few months back) runs a highly successful business. She even has a chauffeur. She doesn't drive.
Needless to say, she doesn't want a penny from me and I don't want her money, either. I would never land myself in any other sort of scenario.
Any man who chooses to stick to archaic dating "rules" in a modern world deserves whatever garbage comes along with it. It is how it should be. Treating people because you want to rather feeling you need to is where it is at. It genuine acts and not just going through the process.
Good to hear you're still seeing her
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2020 12:28:16 GMT
ARGHHHHHBHHHH!!@@!@
It's very much a private matter ...
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Post by Valeriana on Oct 25, 2020 18:12:58 GMT
^^^Exactly.
Hope we don't have to see this dead horse be beaten all over again.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2020 21:49:36 GMT
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