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Post by Deleted on Jan 27, 2020 14:10:20 GMT
@moremoronic You do seem to have toilet issues
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Post by julystorm22 on Feb 10, 2020 21:08:30 GMT
So, I didn't want to start a whole new thread but I wanted to post something that has been worrying me lately.
So, my ex's phone was disconnected about a month ago and I had gotten the kids to message him through Facebook to ask if he was going to take them during February break (a week they get off school). Anyways, it turns out he and his girlfriend finally broke up and he is staying with a buddy in Winnipeg so he can't take our kids that week. On one hand, I'm happy because I thought it unfair he gets to be in a relationship when he's such an awful person but in the other hand I feel bad for my kids who really liked his girlfriend and her kids and this really upsets them. Then I heard from his sister that he is moving back to his mom and dad's which is an hour from me. I felt a lot safer with him living 6 hours away. I also was relieved his girlfriend was there to watch our kids when they went to visit him. Now, I'm worried he is really going to be a thorn in my side. While he was with his girlfriend, things were fine but now that he is single I hope he leaves me the hell alone. I'm also dreading having him show up to events with the kids and such. On one hand, the kids will be happy, but the guy has zero filter and will say things and do things to make things difficult. I really hope he will be taking his meds but his sister told me his girlfriend left him due to his anger issues so we shall see.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2020 21:18:13 GMT
All you need from him is to be a good dad and pay his maintenance. Keep it on a professional level. Maybe, If he is closer. He can have the kids more.
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Post by julystorm22 on Feb 10, 2020 21:27:05 GMT
He has yet to pay me anything and apparently he quit his job two weeks ago so I will not see anything on that front.
I have thought that maybe he would be able to take my kids some weekends when I'm working with him at his parents and that at least they'll be around to keep an eye on him with them.
Maybe I shouldn't be worrying about the worst.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2020 22:12:49 GMT
He has yet to pay me anything and apparently he quit his job two weeks ago so I will not see anything on that front. I have thought that maybe he would be able to take my kids some weekends when I'm working with him at his parents and that at least they'll be around to keep an eye on him with them. Maybe I shouldn't be worrying about the worst. Don't over think it at all. That leads to anxiety. Deal with him when it arises and just tell yourself one thing. Not taking any of his shit! That's it for now.
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