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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 21, 2019 22:43:24 GMT
Yeah, that's probably the case. Hopefully she will be able to get rid of him if that's the case. Mooches are pretty good at suction cupping themselves to a good situation. I learned the hard way.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2019 23:19:36 GMT
Some Women just don't want to believe what is in front of their eyes. The fantasy of it all is a better option.
Look at all the Women on POF that are desperate for love. If someone wants to be calculating enough even if only to get sex, then you tell them what they want to hear and they fall for it most of the time. This is even the case if it has happened in the past to them.
I couldn't do it myself to a Lass. If All I want is some Nookie. I'd be upfront about it and their is plenty of promiscuous Women about too.
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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 22, 2019 1:28:49 GMT
Some Women just don't want to believe what is in front of their eyes. The fantasy of it all is a better option. Look at all the Women on POF that are desperate for love. If someone wants to be calculating enough even if only to get sex, then you tell them what they want to hear and they fall for it most of the time. This is even the case if it has happened in the past to them. I couldn't do it myself to a Lass. If All I want is some Nookie. I'd be upfront about it and their is plenty of promiscuous Women about too. Yes. We were just talking about that. Men message girl after girl, not even looking at her profile until one replies back and he pursues her, regardless of whether he is actually into her. It's not even necessarily to get quick sex, sometimes it's to get into a quick relationship too. And even if he's not completely into her, he keeps going with her until he can, if he can, find what he considers an upgrade. And women do it too. It's like going to the grocery store and the name-brand of ice cream is too expensive so you buy the one on sale instead but you intend on getting the name brand IF/WHEN it goes on sale. It's like temporarily settling. And when I'm with guys, I always wonder if he's just temporarily settling. Because I've had guys I know are really into me by what they say and how much they want to text me or see me. But then there's the guys who are either trying to play it cool or hard-to-get, or they are just not into you enough, they give you just enough to string you along so they can keep up the minimal courtship. There is way too much game-playing that goes on with online dating. And I refuse to keep going with someone I don't know is into me, especially with the amount of overthinking which goes on in my head
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2019 1:50:54 GMT
Overthinking can be the destroyer of all thing and leads to anxiety. I think it works both ways. I chase you, you chase me scenario so both feel wanted. If you aren't chasing me at all then I will think not interested on any level and disengage. Obviously, no score counter. People who are interested will be fast at replying online or via mobile text. If I think I can be into you I make an effort to try and show that. If it is tea time and a Woman has kids, then obviously kids will be priority. There are people who get the date for an ego boost. They don't need to turn up now so they go quiet. Ring any bells at all. Many married Men do this so they feel attractive. But no intent on cheating.
I've stopped messaging on POF to be fair. It really has shown me the lack of effort from Women that supposedly want the one and genuine Men. The thing is that I think is the worst thing. The One could appear right in front of my face right now and I'd probably just think time waster and move on lol
I know Woman don't have it easy at all on the websites.
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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 22, 2019 1:57:58 GMT
The thing is that I think is the worst thing. The One could appear right in front of my face right now and I'd probably just think time waster and move on lol[ That's my thinking too. I think I end up talking to too many non-genuine people that I probably discount some actually genuine people.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2019 15:45:12 GMT
Some Women just don't want to believe what is in front of their eyes. The fantasy of it all is a better option. Look at all the Women on POF that are desperate for love. If someone wants to be calculating enough even if only to get sex, then you tell them what they want to hear and they fall for it most of the time. This is even the case if it has happened in the past to them. I couldn't do it myself to a Lass. If All I want is some Nookie. I'd be upfront about it and their is plenty of promiscuous Women about too. There is way too much game-playing that goes on with online dating. Dating is a game. I know there's a massive aversion to the word "game" when it comes to dating, but that's precisely what it is. There's an objective both involved are trying to meet by putting their proverbial ''best foot forward". Anyone who says they put no thought into what will help bring the results they desire is lying.
I'd be upfront about it and their is plenty of promiscuous Women about too.
That's exactly how it should be done. The problem is, too many men don't have the cojones to say/admit it to a woman because they feel lying is their best chance to succeed, but's just not true. I've said it before and I'll say it again - I hate the sweet-talking bullshit artists just as much as anyone woman does. They're spineless cowards undeserving of any respect from me or anyone else.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2019 16:32:05 GMT
There is way too much game-playing that goes on with online dating. Dating is a game. I know there's a massive aversion to the word "game" when it comes to dating, but that's precisely what it is. There's an objective both involved are trying to meet by putting their proverbial ''best foot forward". Anyone who says they put no thought into what will help bring the results they desire is lying.
I'd be upfront about it and their is plenty of promiscuous Women about too.
That's exactly how it should be done. The problem is, too many men don't have the cojones to say/admit it to a woman because they feel lying is their best chance to succeed, but's just not true. I've said it before and I'll say it again - I hate the sweet-talking bullshit artists just as much as anyone woman does. They're spineless cowards undeserving of any respect from me or anyone else.
Their is a girl around this way and her profile states. Only come at me with a vibe you can keep up which I like because a lot of people do put on a facade. The real person comes to the surface after a while, that isn't too great.
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Post by lovepanky on Jan 27, 2021 23:51:19 GMT
Many singles are on a spectrum of codependency/narcissism. I think you need to unplug from the Matrix and find fun off the dating site. Maybe figure out how to fund your own cruises Oh wait, that was the other demisexual chick...sorry
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