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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2019 13:39:34 GMT
I’ve ordered my xmas nipple ball tassels so as soon as they arrive I’ll put a pic up 😂
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2019 14:02:48 GMT
I’ve ordered my xmas nipple ball tassels so as soon as they arrive I’ll put a pic up 😂 Please. Now that what I call xmas 2019 :) |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2019 14:13:49 GMT
I’ve ordered my xmas nipple ball tassels so as soon as they arrive I’ll put a pic up 😂
That's the spirit. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2019 23:35:32 GMT
Lots of people have affairs. Not advocating, just reality. Just try to help a sister get laid~ I think the smackdown was directed at me, and that's cool, no problem. I was just using it as an example of picking a fling-type that guaranteed "no strings." There are many other ways one can do that, that doesn't entail an affair with a married person. But people being people, and more importantly, horny people being horny people....affairs are a very common means to guarantee no strings. Jus' sayin'. |
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Post by kayjay on Dec 15, 2019 0:26:39 GMT
^You sure about that 'guarantee no strings" ?
I can think of some scenarios that could end with strings...that a ring won't prevent.
Jus' sayin' 😉
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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 15, 2019 16:17:38 GMT
People have had to leave town because they've had affairs and people have found out and the fallout was terrible. No thank you.
I have not gone on POF yet to see who is on there. I am gonna try not to this holiday season. I have a bunch of work shifts and a basement to tidy and organize and I will try and watch a lot of romantic Christmas movies to pass the time away while my kids are gone. I will wait till next summer and then maybe I will start trying for a real relationship because that's what I really want. By then I should have finished paying back a big loan I owe so I will have a little extra money to spend on clothes plus hopefully I'm closer to my goal weight which will make me feel better about myself.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 1:18:11 GMT
People have had to leave town because they've had affairs and people have found out and the fallout was terrible. No thank you. I have not gone on POF yet to see who is on there. I am gonna try not to this holiday season. I have a bunch of work shifts and a basement to tidy and organize and I will try and watch a lot of romantic Christmas movies to pass the time away while my kids are gone. I will wait till next summer and then maybe I will start trying for a real relationship because that's what I really want. By then I should have finished paying back a big loan I owe so I will have a little extra money to spend on clothes plus hopefully I'm closer to my goal weight which will make me feel better about myself. Actually...you are choosing D.) None of the above. And that's probably the right move for you. My suggestions before were assuming you're h*llbent on getting laid, one way or another. THe best route for you is probably just awaiting that til you can find a better situational lover. Ie, a committed BF. I would suggest, though...going somewhere and not just staying at home...get out of the house! A change of scenery, even only temporary, may help you break the rut and look at things differently. And who knows, maybe you'll end up like in a real life version of one of those sappy Christmas romances where hard-luck souls finally FINALLY find love on vacay or travelling. LOL ;) |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 5:30:12 GMT
Speaking of the holidays, this cuffing season shit is really getting out of hand. A woman I was working on a music project with earlier this year just met a guy about a week before Thanksgiving. She is already referring to him as "the love of her life". I saw them at an open mic tonight and I was talking to the guy. I asked him what part of town he lived in. He said he was living with her now.
Yeah. Call me Mr. Party Pooper, but I smell a big fat rat.
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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 19, 2019 6:19:48 GMT
Where's the rat? Honestly, some people fit together immediately and move in together and last forever. Other people don't. I think if you don't want to move in with someone or at least fantasize about it early on, that person will never be right for you. However, two-thirds of people who rush into the situation are not really right for each other and they'll figure it out.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 10:21:21 GMT
Where's the rat? Honestly, some people fit together immediately and move in together and last forever. Other people don't. I think if you don't want to move in with someone or at least fantasize about it early on, that person will never be right for you. However, two-thirds of people who rush into the situation are not really right for each other and they'll figure it out.
There are many people who have done the ''miserably married with children" thing, gone through divorce, and don't wish to live with another romantic partner. They're not as uncommon as you might think. However, two-thirds of people who rush into the situation are not really right for each other and they'll figure it out.
That's a rather conservative figure. Just barely a month and this guy is living with her?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 10:54:06 GMT
Yer, He likely needs resources. Many a conman around. Tell them what they want to hear and if they want to desperately believe it. They will.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 20:44:14 GMT
Yer, He likely needs resources. Many a conman around. Tell them what they want to hear and if they want to desperately believe it. They will.
This woman is good looking, intelligent, and talented, too. Overeagerness can hit anyone if they allow it to. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 19, 2019 21:11:34 GMT
Yer, He likely needs resources. Many a conman around. Tell them what they want to hear and if they want to desperately believe it. They will.
This woman is good looking, intelligent, and talented, too. Overeagerness can hit anyone if they allow it to. The thing is if you say something you'd only be ignored. 2 months later, wah wah wah. |
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Post by julystorm22 on Dec 21, 2019 20:05:03 GMT
Lol, I want to criticize your guys' cynicism but I'm a cynic myself. Not knowing either individual, I can't say much but if both people are happy with things then maybe it works for them. Sometimes a person just has to choose to be happy.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2019 21:45:42 GMT
Lol, I want to criticize your guys' cynicism but I'm a cynic myself. Not knowing either individual, I can't say much but if both people are happy with things then maybe it works for them. Sometimes a person just has to choose to be happy.
I have never seen a scenario like this where it wasn't a case of the guy mooching off the woman. The guy drops his sob story and she's quick to help.
She finally realizes it weeks or months later, then plasters her Facebook news feed with anti-man posts until the next man comes along. |
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