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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 23, 2020 19:56:36 GMT
^^ or people just grow apart and has nothing really to do with behaviour in the sense of people doing something wrong.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 23, 2020 20:04:34 GMT
I've asked men why they're divorced. I've heard gambling, cheating and growing apart. But what makes the couple grow apart? That's the question and it seems the men have taken on hobbies the women didn't want to do.
It was sounding like the men were tiring of their wives. Women pick up on that, then when the sex lessens or stops, the guy says, my wife doesn't want sex anymore. The reality is the wife does want sex, but not with you. Happy wife, happy life.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2020 20:24:47 GMT
I've asked men why they're divorced. I've heard gambling, cheating and growing apart. But what makes the couple grow apart? That's the question and it seems the men have taken on hobbies the women didn't want to do. It was sounding like the men were tiring of their wives. Women pick up on that, then when the sex lessens or stops, the guy says, my wife doesn't want sex anymore. The reality is the wife does want sex, but not with you. Happy wife, happy life. I shouldn't have to live in a Womans pocket and sit there every evening watching mind numbing TV holding her hand after a days work.
Many issues do arise. Gambling and other addictions. What if someone becomes depressed and lost?
I was with someone 17 years and I am to blame because I should've paid more attention. But she should've too.
My issue is now that I do not take shit whatsover. but, that being said. I never did and that is where I think I go wrong being so straight forward insted of choosing my battles.
You asked men and likely got told lies btw because people chat shit and that is Men and Women. Its all about perception in the end.
Oh the wife doesn't want sex is laughable.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 23, 2020 21:13:44 GMT
I've asked men why they're divorced. I've heard gambling, cheating and growing apart. But what makes the couple grow apart? That's the question and it seems the men have taken on hobbies the women didn't want to do. It was sounding like the men were tiring of their wives. Women pick up on that, then when the sex lessens or stops, the guy says, my wife doesn't want sex anymore. The reality is the wife does want sex, but not with you. Happy wife, happy life. I shouldn't have to live in a Womans pocket and sit there every evening watching mind numbing TV holding her hand after a days work.
Many issues do arise. Gambling and other addictions. What if someone becomes depressed and lost?
I was with someone 17 years and I am to blame because I should've paid more attention. But she should've too.
My issue is now that I do not take shit whatsover. but, that being said. I never did and that is where I think I go wrong being so straight forward insted of choosing my battles.
You asked men and likely got told lies btw because people chat shit and that is Men and Women. Its all about perception in the end.
Oh the wife doesn't want sex is laughable.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 23, 2020 21:18:28 GMT
I have to ask the question, whether the response is going to be real or not.
Definitely takes both parties to keep their marriage/relationship in check.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2020 22:01:40 GMT
I have to ask the question, whether the response is going to be real or not. Definitely takes both parties to keep their marriage/relationship in check. The issue is people love the honeymoon period and don't realsise it is a lot more than that if you want somethig more than superficial.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 24, 2020 5:10:08 GMT
It's really human nature to wanna put your best foot forward without plans to keep on doing that.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 26, 2020 1:07:21 GMT
Damn, This was just too much. I couldn't imagine coming across the demands this women has online or offline lol
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2020 0:54:30 GMT
Damn, This was just too much. I couldn't imagine coming across the demands this women has online or offline lol You can bet she's one of the women screeching like a hawk over there being "no good men left". I guess that could be true if you're defining a man's "goodness" on whether he has sweatpants or not.
A friend of mine was telling me a few weeks ago about his sister having a Tinder profile. She announced she won't date any man who has a picture of himself wearing a mask anywhere in his photo gallery.
It's no wonder relationships are becoming a thing of the past, and I honestly couldn't care less.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2020 1:14:17 GMT
Damn, This was just too much. I couldn't imagine coming across the demands this women has online or offline lol You can bet she's one of the women screeching like a hawk over there being "no good men left". I guess that could be true if you're defining a man's "goodness" on whether he has sweatpants or not.
A friend of mine was telling me a few weeks ago about his sister having a Tinder profile. She announced she won't date any man who has a picture of himself wearing a mask anywhere in his photo gallery.
It's no wonder relationships are becoming a thing of the past, and I honestly couldn't care less. I've seen these type of profiles online a good few times.
More and more yonger Men are becoming the same way inclined too, where it just isn't worth the effort and is better to invest in their own hobbies and careers rather than a relationship. Add that these younger Men have seen many older male family members dragged over the coals too, they shy away from relaionships.
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Post by newyorker58 on Oct 29, 2020 4:03:19 GMT
You can bet she's one of the women screeching like a hawk over there being "no good men left". I guess that could be true if you're defining a man's "goodness" on whether he has sweatpants or not.
A friend of mine was telling me a few weeks ago about his sister having a Tinder profile. She announced she won't date any man who has a picture of himself wearing a mask anywhere in his photo gallery.
It's no wonder relationships are becoming a thing of the past, and I honestly couldn't care less. I've seen these type of profiles online a good few times.
More and more yonger Men are becoming the same way inclined too, where it just isn't worth the effort and is better to invest in their own hobbies and careers rather than a relationship. Add that these younger Men have seen many older male family members dragged over the coals too, they shy away from relaionships.
Know what that's called? Being self centered, with a side of selfishness.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2020 10:03:04 GMT
I've seen these type of profiles online a good few times.
More and more yonger Men are becoming the same way inclined too, where it just isn't worth the effort and is better to invest in their own hobbies and careers rather than a relationship. Add that these younger Men have seen many older male family members dragged over the coals too, they shy away from relaionships.
Know what that's called? Being self centered, with a side of selfishness. Not its being not taken for a mug. They want love, affection and all of that. They just think more of themselves than settling for some hoe.. It called self preservation in todays climate due to many relationships and marriage ending so easily. The courts don't have mens interests at heart and young one know it.
Can't be arsed discussing this. Its been beaten like a dog over and over...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2020 16:36:24 GMT
Selfish....haha.
My time, my choice. My money, my choice. See? Men can create cutesy slogans, too.
If more men were smart enough to be "selfish", they wouldn't end up in miserable marriages. (like Lion)
Guilt trips and manipulation don't work on men with options and a spine. Period.
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Post by cooldog65 on Oct 29, 2020 18:44:41 GMT
Damn, This was just too much. I couldn't imagine coming across the demands this women has online or offline lol The strange contradiction was her wanting a guy that works out, but he can't be stronger than her. Unless he's a skinny tofu eating vegan soyboy doing yoga and she benches more than her bodyweight, he's going to be stronger.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2020 18:55:10 GMT
Damn, This was just too much. I couldn't imagine coming across the demands this women has online or offline lol The strange contradiction was her wanting a guy that works out, but he can't be stronger than her. Unless he's a skinny tofu eating vegan soyboy doing yoga and she benches more than her bodyweight, he's going to be stronger.Yup. Well, We don't like soy
I put it down to having mental issues.
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