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Post by Deleted on Nov 6, 2020 17:41:43 GMT
Some off the stuff I have to read
Bet she doesn't do drama lols...
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Post by Valeriana on Nov 6, 2020 23:23:35 GMT
^^^ Charming~
LOL
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 10:22:41 GMT
hahahaha, and that is being nice about it.
She wonders why Men like me prefer the single and easy life
I've seen many a profile like that. More than I'd like to admit to over the years.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 11:30:58 GMT
Some off the stuff I have to read
Bet she doesn't do drama lols...
Oh, boy.
I love how she tries to come off as the big "intellectual" with her "can't string a sentence" spiel, yet her profile reads like it was composed by a high school kid who's failing English.
Then we have the part where she says she doesn't want someone who's chatting with other women. First of all, ANY guy worth having has other women interested in him. Period. Secondly, it takes some serious gall and insecurity to demand a man not be talking to other women. She wants to control a man she hasn't even MET yet?!?! Get out of here with that horseshit.
Last but not least, the "I ain't here to be played" line. Sorry, sweetheart, that's not within your control. Does she honestly think "players" are going to run for the hills because she called them out?
She probably did a great job in garnering high-fives from her girlfriends for the smart ass content of her profile, but the whole purpose is supposed to be to attract a man.
She's lucky the vast majority don't care enough to read profiles anymore, because that one would get her absolutely nowhere.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 11:44:28 GMT
She sounds perfect to me ..
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 13:01:25 GMT
Some off the stuff I have to read
Bet she doesn't do drama lols...
Oh, boy.
I love how she tries to come off as the big "intellectual" with her "can't string a sentence" spiel, yet her profile reads like it was composed by a high school kid who's failing English.
Then we have the part where she says she doesn't want someone who's chatting with other women. First of all, ANY guy worth having has other women interested in him. Period. Secondly, it takes some serious gall and insecurity to demand a man not be talking to other women. She wants to control a man she hasn't even MET yet?!?! Get out of here with that horseshit.
Last but not least, the "I ain't here to be played" line. Sorry, sweetheart, that's not within your control. Does she honestly think "players" are going to run for the hills because she called them out?
She probably did a great job in garnering high-fives from her girlfriends for the smart ass content of her profile, but the whole purpose is supposed to be to attract a man.
She's lucky the vast majority don't care enough to read profiles anymore, because that one would get her absolutely nowhere.It makes me cringe and does nothing to attract me one bit. The thing I'd do if I was into winding up people on there for a laugh is just do what she states on the tin for a giggle as you know she'd fall for it.
The profile is just Man repellent.
Sometimes, I see really good profiles too. You read and are like yeah until they say they go on Holiday to spain 4 times a years to Britain 2.0. I couldn't think of anything more boring than sat in the Sun in a Holday complex. It's ok for a day.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 14:26:35 GMT
I do agree with the keeping your kid's pictures off - well, unless maybe they're grown adults. Other than that her profile reads like a glaring "STAY AWAY!!!" warning sign. I'm with Spectra, stuff like that reinforces I'd rather be single.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2020 15:17:04 GMT
I do agree with the keeping your kid's pictures off - well, unless maybe they're grown adults. Other than that her profile reads like a glaring "STAY AWAY!!!" warning sign. I'm with Spectra, stuff like that reinforces I'd rather be single. Yup. I'm not a fan of young kids on profiles. I get the whole pride and joy thing. But how about we save meeting the kids for now lol..
I seen one profile years back where a Woman had her and her kids on it which where adults. You could see these kids(Adults) had been dragged up lol.. Proper Chav types, then there was the Mother too lol.
Whoosh!! See ya!
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Post by lovepanky on Jan 28, 2021 0:23:42 GMT
What good is there in being single? It's really lonely. There's a financial component to this too. Most single people, especially women because they tend to work lower-paying jobs, have a harder time building up savings, buying a home, going on vacations, etc. Most single women I know, even those that work fulltime and okay-paying jobs, don't have a lot of discretionary money. Couples, on the other hand, are able to have a lot more discretionary money because their combined income affords them such. They have money for things like holidays, retirement, furniture, etc. Also, having dual incomes offers much more stability, especially if a person loses their job or gets sick, because even if one income disappears there is still a backup income. Some scary sh!t right there ^^^ It took me awhile to figure out that I had more money single. Her contribution didn't make or break me. Ever. I had a gal tell me that, didn't I know? Women want to be taken care of. Um, no. I prefer someone that can take care of themselves. Wow. I've seen numerous situations where the a wife or gf can milk her disability at home or go from job to job cause her bf or hubby was her foundation. I don't see many men with that luxury.
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Post by bendingbough19 on Jan 28, 2021 3:09:35 GMT
I do agree with the keeping your kid's pictures off - well, unless maybe they're grown adults. Other than that her profile reads like a glaring "STAY AWAY!!!" warning sign. I'm with Spectra, stuff like that reinforces I'd rather be single. It would take a better "man" than I to get through her message. I was halfway through and felt the need for aspirin :-).
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Post by bendingbough19 on Jan 28, 2021 3:17:18 GMT
What good is there in being single? It's really lonely. There's a financial component to this too. Most single people, especially women because they tend to work lower-paying jobs, have a harder time building up savings, buying a home, going on vacations, etc. Most single women I know, even those that work fulltime and okay-paying jobs, don't have a lot of discretionary money. Couples, on the other hand, are able to have a lot more discretionary money because their combined income affords them such. They have money for things like holidays, retirement, furniture, etc. Also, having dual incomes offers much more stability, especially if a person loses their job or gets sick, because even if one income disappears there is still a backup income. Some scary sh!t right there ^^^ It took me awhile to figure out that I had more money single. Her contribution didn't make or break me. Ever. I had a gal tell me that, didn't I know? Women want to be taken care of. Um, no. I prefer someone that can take care of themselves. Wow. I've seen numerous situations where the a wife or gf can milk her disability at home or go from job to job cause her bf or hubby was her foundation. I don't see many men with that luxury. I think it's a dangerous line of thinking. To me, everyone is better off with the mindset that they are the only person they can ever financially depend on. I see all kinds of women either not earning a lot or earning nothing. I'm not saying they don't contribute to the household in other ways, but really, just how much insurance money are they counting on if the spouse passes on? How much will they earn if the spouse ends up disabled? And what if he leaves? I guess the courts would give something but I can't imagine the courts would provide enough for the woman to keep living a pretty high lifestyle. Let's just say I see a whole of really high-end homes on my FB feed and there is no way the women attached to those homes are making *that* much money.
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Post by lovepanky on Jan 28, 2021 12:17:31 GMT
Some scary sh!t right there ^^^ It took me awhile to figure out that I had more money single. Her contribution didn't make or break me. Ever. I had a gal tell me that, didn't I know? Women want to be taken care of. Um, no. I prefer someone that can take care of themselves. Wow. I've seen numerous situations where the a wife or gf can milk her disability at home or go from job to job cause her bf or hubby was her foundation. I don't see many men with that luxury. I think it's a dangerous line of thinking. To me, everyone is better off with the mindset that they are the only person they can ever financially depend on. I see all kinds of women either not earning a lot or earning nothing. I'm not saying they don't contribute to the household in other ways, but really, just how much insurance money are they counting on if the spouse passes on? How much will they earn if the spouse ends up disabled? And what if he leaves? I guess the courts would give something but I can't imagine the courts would provide enough for the woman to keep living a pretty high lifestyle. Let's just say I see a whole of really high-end homes on my FB feed and there is no way the women attached to those homes are making *that* much money. Sad but true story. Gal hits me up online. I ask her out. She offers to pick me up at home (aka see where I live). Ok, whadeva. Tells me she's a widow of an FBI agent. She's also a notary public. Not too long into our appetizers, somehow she awkwardly asks about my mortgage interest rate. Now my spider sense is tingling. I told her it's much too soon to discuss finances. Date ends and she drives me home. Plants a juicy kiss on my face and asks to see me again the next day. I told her I'd contact her. Next day she calls and asks what the plan is. I tell her I haven't planned anything yet but offer to drive over and pick her up at her place and we'll take it from there. She goes ballistic about stalkers and safety. Yet another example of a man going from charming to dangerous in a short time frame. I tell her I'm no longer interested and quite frankly, the mortage talk was a red flag to me. She says, "Don't you know? All women want to be taken care of." I missed the memo dear. Here's the sad part. 7 months later I get a text from her saying there's going to be an estate sale for her. Now I'm thinking, who is is this texting me? It was her estate using her phone. She committed suicide. Very, very sad. Discovered she was not a widow. Her ex husband is a millionaire local businessman and is still alive. They had no kids and the divorce took 5 years to resolve. She's 57 and he's 70. The home she lived in? 2 million easy. No way a notary could afford that. She had mentioned having problem roommates. No judgment there. I think when the virus hit, her notary gig took a massive hit.l Anyway, with the few bits of information I had, it painted a story of someone trying to cling to a lifestyle she couldn't afford. 5 year divorce yet no kids? 5 years probably because the old fool married without a prenup.
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