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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2019 21:59:07 GMT
^^^ kind of pathetic your 'dates' could not come up with a more creative/fun reason for the time lag---like being abducted by aliens in a time warp or something---had to go right for the scat instead~
I'd not bother to see them again either. No imagination<<<
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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2019 22:10:15 GMT
Yeah, something like that is a bit of a mood killer, but I remember several forumites were absolutely appalled by the fact I lost interest over something so seemingly trivial, and the "outrage" carried on for several pages.
I might be a pig in many aspects, but even I have at least a smidge of decorum.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2019 23:06:26 GMT
^^^ kind of pathetic your 'dates' could not come up with a more creative/fun reason for the time lag---like being abducted by aliens in a time warp or something---had to go right for the scat instead~ I'd not bother to see them again either. No imagination<<< I'm turned off by people I deem as scatological. Openly talking about bodily functions, especially that particular one, seems crude and low-class to me.
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Post by awesomejoe73 on Jun 19, 2019 23:19:35 GMT
Yeah, something like that is a bit of a mood killer, but I remember several forumites were absolutely appalled by the fact I lost interest over something so seemingly trivial, and the "outrage" carried on for several pages. I might be a pig in many aspects, but even I have at least a smidge of decorum. You realize there is a thread about people urinating in the shower here? Don't know about that. Apparently a massive amount of people have been abducted by aliens and bodily fluids are often involved. Perhaps a case of the aliens getting abducted would be more original? or being deported at least! Pigs sleep and root in feces
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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2019 23:25:45 GMT
I have no desire to hear or talk about it, either. If I remember correctly, Eternity was the first to respond negatively to my rejecting the girl and others followed. I was actually a bit surprised anyone objected, but I didn't really care.
My second worst date was probably with a woman who brought her dog to our first date, and most of the time was devoted to her talking to people who wanted to play with her dog. I gave her a second chance, though, and we planned to go to the beach the next weekend. When the day arrived, she called to ask if I was ready. Just as I was heading out the door, she called again to say she changed her mind about going because it was too cold. I asked if she wanted to do something else, but she replied with "nah, I don't want to be out in this weather at all." It was about 65-70 ARCTIC degrees that day.
That was enough for me.
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Post by awesomejoe73 on Jun 19, 2019 23:35:30 GMT
^^^^ Eternity! She apparently thinks it is a women's prerogative to do that and your a lesser man if you didn't arrange to go out and offer food to your dates.She probably thinks you should have had a roll of toilet paper on hand too!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2019 23:57:54 GMT
To that I say...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2019 0:07:53 GMT
Maybe women and men who've had children and changed their diapers don't feel the same disgust talking about bodily fluids (urine and feces) as some of the rest of us. I just know that I personally find it to be a sexual turn-off.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2019 11:32:20 GMT
Worse date was my last date about a year ago. Was the second date with this guy I'd met at the one and only local speed dating event I ever attended, though he did bring his dog in half way through and I should have seen it as a red flag, but the dog was lovely and in fact got his owner more attention I think. First meet was just a walk with him and his dog, a labradoodle, that went fine. Second meet, this odd date, he invited me to a fundraiser which was a very casual taster dinner at the high school and I knew something was off when he brought his dog again. The dog proceeded to sit on my hip and would not budge as soon as I got in his truck and 'my' date would not tell him to move until I convinced him he really was too heavy. Guess I was in the dog’s spot. Then waiting in line for ages to get tickets, he ignored me and struck up a long and animated conversation with older man behind me. Eating the meal, he went and had a super long conversation with lovely landscaper young woman and came back all happy. After we left it was dark and cold, but he wanted to take his dog for a night walk on the beach near there, their tradition apparently, but I’d had enough and said no thanks, that I had to get back. But he ignored me and went to the beach and took his dog for a walk anyway while I froze waiting for them. Finally on the way home it was an empty beach road, he turned his headlights off as a gag while driving and it was pitch dark. I was both scared and mad by then because he'd asked me if I had ever done that before and I said no and please don't. But he did it anyway. Wtf? Are we 12 on a fucking joy ride? Between all this, I had been kind and attentive to him, even though he had not been to me most of the night. Needless to say, I happily never saw him nor his dog again. The dog was really lovely, but clearly was the couple and anyone else was superfluous.
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Post by awesomejoe73 on Jun 20, 2019 13:16:34 GMT
Next time bring a date to a cat cafe!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2019 20:37:53 GMT
Worse date was my last date about a year ago. Was the second date with this guy I'd met at the one and only local speed dating event I ever attended, though he did bring his dog in half way through and I should have seen it as a red flag, but the dog was lovely and in fact got his owner more attention I think. First meet was just a walk with him and his dog, a labradoodle, that went fine. Second meet, this odd date, he invited me to a fundraiser which was a very casual taster dinner at the high school and I knew something was off when he brought his dog again. The dog proceeded to sit on my hip and would not budge as soon as I got in his truck and 'my' date would not tell him to move until I convinced him he really was too heavy. Guess I was in the dog’s spot. Then waiting in line for ages to get tickets, he ignored me and struck up a long and animated conversation with older man behind me. Eating the meal, he went and had a super long conversation with lovely landscaper young woman and came back all happy. After we left it was dark and cold, but he wanted to take his dog for a night walk on the beach near there, their tradition apparently, but I’d had enough and said no thanks, that I had to get back. But he ignored me and went to the beach and took his dog for a walk anyway while I froze waiting for them. Finally on the way home it was an empty beach road, he turned his headlights off as a gag while driving and it was pitch dark. I was both scared and mad by then because he'd asked me if I had ever done that before and I said no and please don't. But he did it anyway. Wtf? Are we 12 on a fucking joy ride? Between all this, I had been kind and attentive to him, even though he had not been to me most of the night. Needless to say, I happily never saw him nor his dog again. The dog was really lovely, but clearly was the couple and anyone else was superfluous. Oh, boy. I completely understand the concept of owning pets, loving and taking care of them, but I have no patience or understanding for people who have to drag them everywhere they go as if they are some sort of life support system. I never saw this kind of shit when I was growing up. It's all a big monkey see/monkey do fad that seemed to start right around the beginning of the new millennium.
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Post by awesomejoe73 on Jun 20, 2019 21:26:34 GMT
^^^^We bought our first cat to Disney land back in 2004!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2019 22:31:56 GMT
That's incredible, awesomejoe73 !
And @thepigofyourdreams (nice name), I agree and feel there's a time and place for everything. I used to take my dog with me everywhere in my life in England. She was a beautiful border collie rescued from an abusive farmer and she just wanted to be loved. So she came with me everywhere, but my life there was perfect for that.... walking the kids to and from school, was a walking town so we walked everywhere, and she was so gentle they welcomed her in my classes at social services almost like a therapy dog. But I never would have taken her on a date unless it was dog related. No, this guy was unnaturally joined at the hip with his dog, except for when the dog was sitting on mine.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2019 23:55:37 GMT
That's incredible, awesomejoe73 !
No, this guy was unnaturally joined at the hip with his dog, except for when the dog was sitting on mine. That's just neurotic, and I couldn't deal with it. He sounds like the kind of person who would say "I like dogs better than human beings!!" Of course he probably does, because the dog can't tell him how batshit crazy he is for saying something so stupid.
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Post by cooldog65 on Jun 21, 2019 16:06:39 GMT
A couple of bad ones come to mind...
First one was a lunch date that lasted 90 minutes and her kids called 17 times. By the third call I was sternly announcing to her what number this call was (Three!, Four!, Five!, etc...).
I actually went on a second date with her and we saw the movie "Bad Santa". Her kids called only a half dozen times. No third date!
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