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Post by Deleted on Apr 30, 2013 22:09:45 GMT
Auri, you are a good person to care for both your friend and her daughter. Friends like you will help this family make it. It's one thing to think we are open-minded and another how we react to the reality that our dreams are not going to come true. We tend to dream that our child will work thru our mistakes to become the most amazing person in history, get married and give us grandchildren that are even more amazing. With the right support your friend will get past her expectations and accept her daughter for who she is, which her daughter needs. Let her know that the harder she pushes her daughter the more extreme the girl will react. That poor girl is going thru the normal teen angst with the added factor of not being "normal". She is screaming for love and acceptance. If she is still talking to you let her know that her mother will come around and that she needs to tone it down a bit to help her mother. It may be hard to get this thru to her because of the pain she is in, but your need to try. Hugs to you.
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Post by auriela on May 5, 2013 22:41:38 GMT
Auri, you are a good person to care for both your friend and her daughter. Friends like you will help this family make it. It's one thing to think we are open-minded and another how we react to the reality that our dreams are not going to come true. We tend to dream that our child will work thru our mistakes to become the most amazing person in history, get married and give us grandchildren that are even more amazing. With the right support your friend will get past her expectations and accept her daughter for who she is, which her daughter needs. Let her know that the harder she pushes her daughter the more extreme the girl will react. That poor girl is going thru the normal teen angst with the added factor of not being "normal". She is screaming for love and acceptance. If she is still talking to you let her know that her mother will come around and that she needs to tone it down a bit to help her mother. It may be hard to get this thru to her because of the pain she is in, but your need to try. Hugs to you. hug1 thank you for that bug.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2013 1:20:11 GMT
Are you doing any better?
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Post by cobtact on Dec 9, 2013 7:04:04 GMT
gad..shes not even posting bug..she must be
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2013 14:17:42 GMT
gad..shes not even posting bug..she must be Ummmm..... timeline... (zany bird ya ) (and I'd wager auriela still has a boo at this place occasionally, even if she hasn't been bothering to post for a while for whatever reason)
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Post by grey areas on Nov 11, 2020 19:12:57 GMT
Brings a smile to many faces...
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