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Post by awesomejoe73 on Mar 24, 2020 14:45:07 GMT
Definitely, they loved us during SEPT 11 and soon after but a year later were saying "fuck the police" all over again. TRENDS END.
That being said, there is a new trend that my father sees. As you know he started dating again. Hes 82 almost and does himself up and looks in late 50's and has had dates in their 30's. He is claiming that he thinks millennial women are upset with their choices in men since their men can't afford to take them out. He swears that he is doing better than them with THEIR own women because deep down the women are wanting men who can afford to live NORMal. hE SWEARS THIS. The ramen eating girls are getting tired. His good friend owns the Copa?(I know you heard this name before)..and the owner says same. After this recession devestates the young girls finances and men finances..he believes it will continue to get more favoreable.
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Post by cooldog65 on Mar 24, 2020 18:06:22 GMT
Last thing in the world we need is a baby boom of any kind. World is way too overpopulated currently.
As for the social distancing, I remember when there was a 4 foot rule for lap dances in Lakewood, WA where I live. That ordinance wasn't followed. How could you even call it a lap dance when there's no contact? Talk about a waste of money!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 24, 2020 18:08:25 GMT
Last thing in the world we need is a baby boom of any kind. World is way too overpopulated currently.
As for the social distancing, I remember when there was a 4 foot rule for lap dances in Lakewood, WA where I live. That ordinance wasn't followed. How could you even call it a lap dance when there's no contact? Talk about a waste of money! Damn, You could get closer to watching it virtual on a monitor.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 16:18:19 GMT
That's just it, though. I don't want one to work. I've had my fill of relationships and what I've learned through them is unconditional romantic love isn't attainable. It lasts for as long as we retain the qualities that keep the other attracted to us, and sometimes even that is no guarantee. I would agree with this. Although I would say that *perpetual* romantic love isn't attainable. It's attainable, imo, in shorter time spans. Now, that doesn't say that a deep bond and friendship doesn't carry on after that...and that, plus shared experiences and values is what cements a true LTR, and "romance" is much less a factor. But there's a whole huge industry of experts, authors, specialists, etc. etc. etc. that make a living on trying to convince us all otherwise. Not to mention the religious folks. So it's pounded into our heads that we should always be fking like teenagers, or our marriage/LTR is a failure. I also agree that our dating/mating behaviour may change for a little while, but in no time, it will go back to what it was before. Peoples' memories are short. FOr now though, it's Hazmat Hookups.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 16:22:05 GMT
Watch how many babies are born in nine months! Perhaps they’ll be called the Coronials. Coronials....pretty funny :) But let's unpack this. What does this really say? What it says to me, is that we're only bonking our SO's when there's nothing.....ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE to do. Cynical? LOL whatever :):):)
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 16:54:27 GMT
If so, it will be short lived, just like the brief glimpse of solidarity and harmony among Americans after 9/11. You can't scare people into monogamy. HIV hasn't done it on a large scale and neither will Corona. Back in 1983-84 I was perfectly happy to be in a relationship when AIDs hit the news. That one lasted 28+ years and still would be, if she didn't die... You have to be willing to work at it and want it to work....Let me correct that for you... You have to BOTH be willing to work at it and want it to work.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 17:05:04 GMT
Back in 1983-84 I was perfectly happy to be in a relationship when AIDs hit the news. That one lasted 28+ years and still would be, if she didn't die... You have to be willing to work at it and want it to work.... Let me correct that for you... You have to BOTH be willing to work at it and want it to work. It does take two. But, These days people are quick to replace when they actually really have to put the effort in to maintain things. Take for instance I posted in the other thread a while back where said Woman had on headline I was in a boring relationship for 24 years. Cheers for letting me know you're a boring cunt. Ah guys fault of course lol
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 17:31:06 GMT
I would agree with this. Although I would say that *perpetual* romantic love isn't attainable. It's attainable, imo, in shorter time spans. Right. That's why I threw ''unconditional" in there. Unconditional implies everlasting no matter what, which we know isn't possible.
So it's pounded into our heads that we should always be fking like teenagers...
We really should!
I also agree that our dating/mating behaviour may change for a little while, but in no time, it will go back to what it was before. Peoples' memories are short.
Yes. It's hard to imagine right now as we're in the midst of all the hysteria, but it will all be a distant memory eventually and the feeling of having dodged a proverbial bullet will lead to things going back to how they were.
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Post by Behind Blue Eyes on Mar 25, 2020 19:00:17 GMT
Back in 1983-84 I was perfectly happy to be in a relationship when AIDs hit the news. That one lasted 28+ years and still would be, if she didn't die... You have to be willing to work at it and want it to work.... Let me correct that for you... You have to BOTH be willing to work at it and want it to work. I guess I thought that BOTH was implied in my statement......
As for Joe's comment about his Father......... I could see that.......
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 19:21:27 GMT
Gosh, my thought reading Joe’s post about his 80 year old dad being snagged by ladies in their 30’s was... Well there goes any hope for my age bracket of ladies in our 60’s since now no one wants us. Before at least the 70 and 80 year old guys might take a look, but I guess no more.
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Post by Behind Blue Eyes on Mar 25, 2020 19:41:44 GMT
Gosh, my thought reading Joe’s post about his 80 year old dad being snagged by ladies in their 30’s was... Well there goes any hope for my age bracket of ladies in our 60’s since now no one wants us. Before at least the 70 and 80 year old guys might take a look, but I guess no more. OFFS, Willow. If your pics are you, and I have no reason to doubt that. I'd be taking a look at you... I don't think most 30 somethings are a long term answer. As a child of the sixties, those young women will never be as "Cool" as their Mom/Grandma was... I'll take the ones who wore mini skirts, go go boots, drove a pony or muscle car, and listened to my music..
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 20:05:39 GMT
Thanks bbe, I was joking... though honestly it’s hard to find anyone who will go above 60 if they’ve put an age range in their profile.
It’s another reason why I honestly only take a peak in the pond once or twice a year and only met one person in the last several years. Funny he was supposed to be three years older than me, but turned out he lied and was actually six years older, I think. Who can tell if it’s true after the first lie?
But his age didn’t matter to me. There just wasn’t any chemistry, like happens so often. :(
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 20:54:38 GMT
Thanks bbe, I was joking... though honestly it’s hard to find anyone who will go above 60 if they’ve put an age range in their profile. It’s another reason why I honestly only take a peak in the pond once or twice a year and only met one person in the last several years. Funny he was supposed to be three years older than me, but turned out he lied and was actually six years older, I think. Who can tell if it’s true after the first lie? But his age didn’t matter to me. There just wasn’t any chemistry, like happens so often. :( . One of many ladies around my way comes to mind that has " Age is only a number" as headline. She is 53. Funny, How her filter is Men 54 Max. She has some dank weed because she is dreaming. Just full of Faeces. and On a different note Another: Its what is in the inside that count. Another one way traffic tard. They both will remain there forever. No one buys their nonsense. The amount of nonsense on them places is rife and I know why I remain single. People are full of Faeces :)
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Post by Deleted on Mar 25, 2020 21:15:26 GMT
Before at least the 70 and 80 year old guys might take a look, but I guess no more. If we see a significant influx of 80-somethings and 30-somethings pairing up after all of this blows over, I will shave my head bald and tattoo a penis on each side of it.
That's how confident I am it won't happen.
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Post by bendingbough19 on Mar 25, 2020 22:02:16 GMT
I woke up to this as a message on FB today, "Gonna die alone ?? You’ve already sucked half the life outa me. So maybe you live a little longer...and bear witness..." This from a person I haven't seen, yet alone spoken with since around 2011. While I am not completely certain what he is referring to in terms of what I will bear witness to, it made me laugh when I read it. I mean drama much? And that is exactly what I think an 80 something year old that hooked up with a 30 something year old would end up with - drama. Maturity is hard to find in my opinion and it is SUCH a desirable characteristic in my books. And willow, I am sure there are lots of men who would still give you MORE than a second look. POF and other dating platforms tend to have men limiting their age band downward, but in real-life, I think men simply appreciate attractiveness, regardless of age. You are very attractive so nothing for you to worry about.
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